Spring, one of the more social women on our floor recruited several of us to be hostesses at a rush event. So we came to the fraternity. And so my husband apparently saw me there, I didn’t remember him. That led to, led to us actually we got married the end of my sophomore year, so it really changed my changed my Stanford experience because then we had married student housing off campus. We would come home from doing something late at night and we had, we would open the door quietly and we, we had flyswatters right by the door, and we’d grab the flyswatter and then flip on the lights and then kill as many cockroaches as we could.